Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Book Review, a little bit late.

One of the things I've been keeping busy with, of course, is reading.  As you may remember, I am a member of a book club, affiliated with MOPS, that meets once a a month.  One of the books on my review list this month is from what we discussed this past meeting.  (Or rather, I would've discussed it with them, but I wasn't able to attend.)  The book is called "The Space Between Us", by Thrity Umrigar.
This book was examining the relationship between a very poor woman living in a slum in India and the woman she works for.  Although the women have worked very closely for several years, and their families have interacted with each other, it was truly astonishing and somewhat disturbing to read about the class distinctions, and how much higher up the employer felt she was, even as far as forbidding the servant to sit on her furniture or drink from her cups.  I enjoyed this book, and found it amusing that I read this book with an "accent".

Another really good book I read recently is called "Girl in Translation", by Jean Kwok.
This book tells the story of a girl who came to America from China with her mother.  They were sponsored by her aunt and uncle, who found jobs for this girl and her mother, as well as a place to live.  Sounds wonderful, right?  A touching family story?  Not quite.  The apartment they live in is an inhabitable building.  They work long hours for little pay in the garment industry.  The aunt deducts money from their pay to cover the cost of their airline tickets. The main character goes to school, speaking very little English, then works at the factory with her mother.  Little by little, the girl really pulls herself up, gaining admission to an exclusive school, where she works on the library to earn her scholarship, in her desparate attempt to help her mother.  Quite an inspiring story, even more so when you realize it is set in the present day.

My next book, "Fallen Leaves", by Adeline Yen Mah, was a little more challenging to read.  This autobiography is about a Chinese girl, whose mother died shortly after giving birth to her.  She has 1 older sister and 3 older brothers, and they all consider her unlucky.  Her father remarries, a woman they call "Niang", meaning stepmother, and Adeline's life really turns to misery then.  Adeline's father has another son and daughter by his second wife, and those two children are clearly the favorites.  The children from the first marriage are treated as second class citizens, but Adeline has it the worst  by far.  The only people that care for her at all are her aunt and grandfather, who also live in the same house.  They are completely dependant on Adeline's father for their own well being, and are thusly controlled by Niang as well, and can do little to help Adeline.  Although she eventually breaks their hold on her, the torment never really ends.  A disturbing book, right to the end.

"Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet", by Jamie Ford, was a very sweet book.  Taking place in Seattle at the beginning of World War II, the main character is a Chinese boy going to an all white school.  His parents, who do not speak English, will not let him speak Chinese at home, as they want him to be an American.  The other children at school torment him.  Since the war started, his father makes him wear a button that says "I am Chinese."  A girl transfers to his school who is Japanese.  Since both of them are scholarship students, both work in the school cafeteria to "earn their keep", and become friends.  She and her family are rounded up and sent to a Japanese internment camp, and eventually the two friends lose touch with each other.  This book is about the boy, now an adult and widow, who has his memory stirred by the finding of Japanese familie's belongings, found in the basement of an old hotel.  The book is written between flashbacks of himself as a boy and himself as an adult, all centered around this Japanese girl, that he has come to love.  Very touching, and very well written.

Currently, I'm reading two books, "Fearless", by Max Lucado for my Bible study group, and "Hissy Fit", by Mary Kay Andrews.  Look for reviews of those and others coming later.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Backyard Camp Out

The girls have long been asking for us to take a camping trip, which I would really like to do, but the idea of camping with Maddie at this age is too daunting!  So, on the night of August 13, we compromised.  This is what the night looked like at our house:
Pretty, right?

I mean, look at that moon, and the sky was clear as a bell

So, I convinced Don to set up a tent in the backyard.  Between the two of us, we made quick work of it.  And, we "roughed" it.  By that I mean that we did not use air mattresses, even though I REALLY wanted one.  There wasn't enough room in the tent for all of them, and I couldn't have one and make the kids sleep on the ground.

Here is the tent:

See that strange glow?  Don ran an extension cord from the patio outlet so that I could have a reading light out there, after the kids fell asleep!  So, not really roughing it at all.


Here are 3 of my girls, all ready for bed.  Maddie slept in the house with Dad, Brianna was out for the night, and Brittany decided that she didn't really want to sleep in the backyard.


Here they are, all tucked in:  Abby, Emma, and Katie.  Aunt Becky had gotten them sleeping bags last Christmas, and while we had used them for family room slumber parties, this was the night we broke them in for outside use.  Although you can't really see them under all of the girls' "must have" blankets!


Brittany did come out and join us for a while, though.  We all took turns adding to a round robin type of story, and Brittany told the girls all about her day at school that day.


This is a picture of Katie, sound asleep.  I love the pose!  And yes, she really was sleeping.  I know this, because Brittany was tickling the poor girl, and the most she did was brush her hand across her face.


Abby fell asleep pretty quickly too.  I guess all the cool, fresh air, really wears you out!

And then there's Emma.

She had Brittany and I fooled for a good long while.  She kept a VERY straight face while Brittany was playing with her, and we honestly thought she was sound asleep too.  And then she cracked a smile, and that was the end of that.


This was what I woke up to the next morning.  Nylon sleeping bags, on a nylon tent bottom, with little wriggling girls in them all night migrate very well.  We all started out in a nice, neat row, but sure didn't stay that way long.  Here are Abby and Emma in one corner, and here's Katie in another.



We all had a really fun time though, and a surprisingly good sleep.  And I wasn't too stiff the next morning!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

My Mom's birthday

Since I seem to be doing things VERY out of order, trying to catch up on those things I haven't posted about for over a month, here is a post about my Mom's birthday, which was August 4th.

Mom and Dick came out for the Saturday before her birthday, and we all made an afternoon of it.

The camera didn't actually come out of hiding until after the kids were in pjs, which was actually quite early.  I'm not really sure why.  Here, Mom is reading a story called "Pinkalicious" to Katie.  Katie, as always, is very aware that a camera is pointing at her.


After story time, the Fancy Nancy board game came out, and all the little girls and Mom played that game.

Interspersed through the little kid entertainments were several vicious games of Spite and Malice, or as it's known around here, "Spider Mouse".


Next came present time.  Of course, no one here can open their own presents, the special expertise of the little people is always required.  Here, Emma is helping with the birthday card reading.  By the way, see the window?  It's full on daylight....I can't explaing the nightgowns and pajamas, I really can't.


Abby, (also in a nightgown!) is looking on as the next card is read.


This is Mom, asking me if I had made her card.  The answer was yes.  I was playing around with some quilling supplies, and made a really cute card with a frog on it.  Unfortunately, I neglected to take a picture of it!



Here is the present that we gave Mom.  It is a tote bag, which I made from a pattern I found and just had to make.  You do remember that I don't consider myself able to sew well, right?  I LOVE how this bag came out!  We also gave Mom a couple of sets of knitting needles that she wanted.

Here is another picture of the bag:


It is quilted, so it is sturdy, with padded handles.  There is a large pocket on both the front and the back, and ties on the side to allow for expansion.  The bottom is square, so it sits up really well.



The inside is fully lined, and there are pockets around the inside, plenty of room for all kinds of odds and ends!

Mom couldn't believe that I had made it, which tells you something about my abilities!  I was very happy that she liked it, and even happier that she moved a project into it almost as soon as she got home!

After presents, we had dessert.  I didn't get a picture of that either, darn it!  Every year, Becky makes a fruit tart, with a delicious white chocolate/cream cheese base in a shortbread crust, and arranges sliced fresh fruit on top.  This year, she let the girls help arrange the fruit, and it was beautiful as well as delicious.  Can't wait for next year, when we have it again.  I will definitely take a picture next time!


Saturday, September 18, 2010

The Fundraising Auction Basket


A few days ago, I mentioned that we had gone on a whirlwind trip to Southern California in July.  While we were there, I delivered the basket for my mother-in-law's fundraiser, and I remembered to take a picture of it first!  I know it's hard to tell what is in the basket, so I also took pictures of the pieces.

Here is a 5 piece spa set, knit in 100% cotton.  There is an eye mask, soap bag, wash mitt, headband, and washcloth.

A pair of ladies' size medium slippers, knit in 100% acrylic.

A teapot with tea cozy, knit in 100% cotton, along with a lidded mug.

A four piece journal set, consisting of a large journal, pocket journal, bookmark, and pen.

Honey Almond scented bath/facial products:  bath salt, bath milk, oatmeal soap, glycerin soap, and loofah soap.


A purse set of 100% wool:  cell phone case, coin purse, glasses case, and key leash.


And lastly, the tag, listing the basket components.  See where it says "Semi-Homemade"?  That is the theme that Rita chose.  The items that I pictured above were all made by me, except, of course, the teapot and mug.  As for the other things in the basket, we included unscented votive candles, assorted herbal teabags, a tranquilty CD, and a manicure set.  All in all, I think it turned out really well, and it was fun to put together as well!  That's always a plus, and I'm hoping it does well in the silent auction, which is coming up on the 25th.  If I find out how much it went for, I'll be sure to post it here!

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Short and Sweet (but better than nothing!)

This post is not only long overdue, it's going to just be a teaser, in the hopes that once I've got a promise of more info out there, I will be able to follow through rather quickly!

As I have 2 girls waiting to play Monopoly Jr. with me, I will keep this brief, and summarize what's been keeping me away for so long!

First, we had 2 whirlwind, back to back trips to Southern California.  More on those later.

Random picture of the 3 girls.  Emma is wearing a t-shirt that Don's niece made.

Next, school.  I had forgotten how busy kindergarten keeps parents!  Take that, and multiply it by two....yeah, any wonder why I haven't posted lately?  The girls are doing VERY well, though, and genuinely love school!  Both Abby and Emma were chosen for September's Student of the Month for their class.  Yes, both of them at the same time...their teacher said they were both worthy, and she was trying to make it easy on our family.  As their prize, they each received a free personal pizza from the local restaurant, and were very proud of themselves!  Aside from that, in the 1 1/2 months of school, we've had 1 back to school luau, 3 fundraisers (with one more tonight, and one starting next week!), 2 parent/teacher conferences (1 each), and plenty of homework.  Oh yeah, and I volunteer in their class on Tuesday mornings.  For that, I am truly glad that they are in the same class!  More on school to come!

Also, the garden has gone CRAZY!  I've been canning like mad to try to keep up with how much produce we're getting! I've canned jalapenos, chiles, catsup, pasta sauce (2 kinds), marmalade, taco sauce, BBQ sauce, pickles (multiple kinds!), corn, pinto beans, relish, salsa...the list goes on, and will be touched on again later!

Abby, Emma, and Katie, at our backyard campout.
I went "backyard camping" with the girls one night, and they had a really good time.  I'm not sure any of us slept very well, but it was fun!
My new Ugly Purse and accessories.


A brief sampling of the bag mania that has gripped me for the last 2 or so months!  This was knit and felted from leftover balls of wool yarn, and as I used every color I had, the girls dubbed it the Ugly Purse.  I don't care, I love it!  I've knit several other purses lately, no two alike.  Why?  I don't know why either.  Because I wanted to see if I could, I guess!


My mother-in-law's auction basket, all finished!

Of course, I've had many other knitting projects in the works.  And cross stitch.  And baking.  And other crafting.  Lots more to follow on this!

And to round out my weeks, I babysit a 7 month old on Wednesday mornings, so his mom can volunteer in her daughter's kindergarten class, have Bible study on Wednesday nights, and MOPS has started again, as well as the accompanying book club meetings.  Is it any wonder that when I stop moving for a minute, my kids take pictures like this:
Although I want it noted that this is RARE!

But, at least I'm in good company:
Maddie, taking after her dad...puts on a tv show and falls asleep on the couch!

Take care, and I promise to come back soon with more details!








Saturday, July 31, 2010

Library Visits and Book Reviews

On Monday, after the girls got out of school, we went on a trip to the library.  We had finished circling all of the boats required for the library's reading program, and we had 19....yes, 19!...books that were due back.  So, off we went!

We used the automated check-in and returned 17 books, went to the librarians desk and renewed 2 books, and turned in our game boards.  The prizes for finishing the program were:  a giant beach ball, a pass to the Lawrence Hall of Science, a coupon for a free personal pizza from Round Table Pizza, and....a brand new book, to keep!  They had a whole rack full of books to choose from, and it was a tough job to narrow them down, but we came home with:  Pig Out! by Portian Aborio (chosen by Emma), Who Spilled the Milk? by Martha Gradisher (chosen by Katie), and Amelia Bedelia Under Construction by Herman Parish (chosen by Abby).

Next, we went and picked out new library books.  Between the 3 girls and I, we checked out a total of 19....yes, 19! books.  It seems that 19 is our lucky library number!

Here are some pictures of some favorite recently read books:


This last is a picture of Junie B. Jones, a spunky kindergartener who has a series of 19 books, written by Barbara Park.  I read these to Brianna and Brittany, and am thrilled to be reading them again!

Now, on to some books that I've read recently.  The first is called The Forgotten Garden, by Kate Morton.

This book is quite thick (over 500 pages), and was chosen by my book club members as the book we will discuss in August.  I had previously picked up Kate Morton's debut novel, The House at Riverton, and haven't finished it yet.  For some reason, I couldn't get into that one, and was afraid this one would be much the same.  I was very happy that this book hooked me from the very beginning!  In the beginning of the book, a four year old girl is left abandoned on a dock in Australia, and is raised by the dock master and his wife as their own.  When she turns 21, she is told the truth, as much as is known, about herself.  The book goes back and forth, from past to present, as Nell (as the dock master named her), and later her granddaughter, tries to find out who Nell really is.  This was a very engaging book, and it has made me want to find the other novel by Kate Morton, and give it a try again.

The next book I read was Home Safe, by Elizabeth Berg.

This book, like most of Ms. Berg's books, was a very quick read.  Helen, a writer, has lost her husband, and her ability to write.  She is trying to regain the balance in her life, and have a relationship with her adult daughter, when she finds out a big secret that her husband was involved in when he died.  The book is about her decision making process, and coming to terms with the changes in her world.  While it was a decent book, and I was able to read it in 3 days, it wasn't captivating.  But sometimes, you just need an entertaining book, which this one was.  As was the next book I read, also by Elizabeth Berg.


the last time i saw you was also a very quick read.  A group of former classmates, 3 men and 2 women, anticipating their fortieth (and last) class reunion, reflect on their accomplishments, disappointments, and expectations.  These people represent the basic cliques in high school:  the jock, the cheerleader, the nerd, the wanna-be-popular girl, and the misfit.  Each attends the reunion for different reasons, and each comes away from it changed in some way.

My current book is called The Shack, by William P. Young, and is the book my book club has chosen for December.  Yes, I'm very ahead of schedule, reading this book now, but a) I had it on the shelf and b) when I heard about it, I was worried that I wouldn't be able to finish it.  I put off starting it for several weeks, because I typically read at bedtime, and this didn't seem like a bedtime kind of book.  Here is the synopsis off the back cover: 

"Mackenzie Allen Phillips's youngest daughter, Missy, has been abducted during a family vacation, and evidence that she may have been brutally murdered is found in an abandoned shack deep in the Oregon wilderness. Four years later, in this midst of his great sadness, Mack receives a suspicious note, apparently from God, inviting him back to that shack for a weekend. Against his better judgment he arrives at the shack on wintry afternoon and walks back into his darkest nightmare. What he finds there will change his life forever." 

Even after I started this book, I had concerns, and for a couple of nights, slept very restlessly.  But now, towards the halfway point, I'm intrigued, and really want to find out what happens next.  I'm going to choose to finish the book before delving into all the controversy that is surrounding it, as many books with a religious bent seem to have.  I want to make up my own mind about it, before reading someone else's opinion.

The book club has come up with many interesting books throughout the next 8 months, and I will share them with you as I read them.  And count on many, many more trips to the library!  The girls have a ball there.  I might even be able to pick out a few "Mom" books next time!



Thursday, July 29, 2010

"Spider Mouse"

Remember when I mentioned in Brittany's birthday post that a post about playing cards would be coming?  Well, here it is.  I know that you had no idea what the topic would be, based on the title!

The name of the card game is Spite and Malice, but when you run that through a five year old's translator, it becomes Spider Mouse, and so that is what we have started calling this game.

Spite and Malice is a two player game, involving 2 complete decks of cards, including jokers.  My mom says that she played this game all through college.  For me, it is the kind game that I forget about if I don't play it regularly, but it all comes back pretty quickly.

 On Easter Sunday, we resurrected this game, and Brittany would occasionally challenge me to a game.  The girls, particularly Abby and Emma, were always asking someone to play "Spider Mouse" with them.  We originally created a 5 year old friendly game, and they always chose someone to be the spider and someone to be the mouse.  They played pretty regularly, until the unfortunate milk incident that caused two decks to be thrown away.  But, they gave Brittany two brand new decks for her birthday, and their grandmother gave them two decks of their own.  Thus, new life was breathed into the game again.
In this picture, Aunt Becky and Emma (you can just see her elbow), are on one team, Gam and Abby on another.  Katie and Poppa are watching. 

The day of Brittany's party, Mom and Becky started playing Spite and Malice, and they teamed up with the twins.  Just through doing that, the kids caught on quick!  This is not an easy game for kids, as their is a lot of strategy involved.  As the name suggests, the game (and players!) can get pretty nasty!


Another view of the same game.


Game play continued all day, squeezing in between breaks for dinner, presents, and cake.  The following day, play picked up again, between Brittany and Emma.  Abby and I played a game, and while I didn't try to crush her, I wasn't handing her a victory either.  The girl beat me by 11 cards!!!  After a while, Brittany challenged me, and she and I played several rounds.  Eventually, Don decided that he wanted to learn too.

This past weekend, Emma had Brianna sit down, and worked on teaching her the game!  Last night, I had Don sit down with me and we played.  While we played, I took pictures, so I could teach the game to you.


  • To start off, each player takes a well shuffled deck, making sure that the jokers are included.  Each counts off a pile of 25 face down cards and 1 face up card, for a stack of 26.

  • All of the remaining cards are shuffled together to make a draw pile.

  • The person with the highest card up goes first.  They draw five cards from the draw pile.

  • The object of the game is to play the cards out of your stack, while blocking your opponent from playing any of his cards.  In this game, suit doesn't matter, only numbers.  Play begins when an ace is played.  Each player can play off any piles in the middle, and piles are built sequentially, in ascending order.

  • You always start your turn with 5 cards in your hand.  At the end of your turn, playing any cards you can play, you have the option of discarding a card.  Each player can have up to four discard piles, and discard piles are in descending order.  However, unlike Solitaire, you are not limited to one card per number.  For instance, you do not have to have "K-Q-J-10..."  A discard pile could be "K-K-K-K-Q-Q-J-10-10..."
After a few hands.  You can see that neither of us has played any cards out of our stack, each has 2 discard piles, and we have two playable piles in the middle.


  • You can play with cards in your hand or cards in your discard piles.  You want to be careful not to bury cards too far, or you won't be able to play them when you need them!

  • Discard piles play an important role in the strategy.  You want to keep track of any cards your opponent has at his disposal, that will allow him to play a card from his stack.  You do not want to play any cards that will allow him to play his card.  In the above picture, Don has in his discard piles a 7, 8, and 9.  He has a Jack up to play.  I cannot see if he may have a 10 in his hand, so I am not going to play my 6.



  • Jokers are wild cards, and can be used for any cards EXCEPT aces or twos.  If you get a joker on your stack, you can look at as many cards beneath it as you think you can remember, in order to plan future turns.

  • You want to not let your opponent know that you have key cards in your hand.  As an example:
In this hand, I have an 8 up for play.  I have a 6 in my discard pile, but my 7's are seemingly buried.  I want Don to play his 5 (in his discard pile), so I do not let him know that I have another 7 in my hand.


This is an example of discard piles.  Be careful, if you have 4 piles, and can't discard any cards, play stops!

As the center piles are completed by the placement of a King, they are reshuffled and added to the bottom of the draw pile.  Play ends when a player plays all 26 cards in his stack.  Games have been known to seem endless!

This game is much easier to learn when you watch someone else play first, then play with someone willing to show you things and teach you tricks.  This tutorial is possible not sufficient to teach you how to play, but it does introduce you to Spider Mouse, and hopefully, if it gets mentioned in the future, you will know what I'm talking about.

One last picture:
This is Don, after the game, cleaning up the cards.  Oh yeah, by the way, he beat me....but not by much!